Detailed scanning at Thomson medical centre, 20 weeks and 2 days.

I'm still worried during that period after my blood test result. I've a seriously low red blood cells. That scares me when the doctor break the news to me in the early morning that day.

19/08/10 went to Jurong to visit my Chinese physical. Every thing came out good! She was shocked to see my tummy grow so big when I'm only 5 months pregnant and my boobs grow a lot bigger and fast. She told me that mini is very healthy now and he's very active! No wonder he's kicking me so much nowadays. I'm so happy to hear that mini's very active and healthy. These shows he's growing well inside! Weee!

Doctor also told me try not to eat too much fried food as baby is growing very fast. He's my first baby and she's afraid it will be hard for me to deliver if mini's growing too big. Even the medicine that she gave me, I no longer have to eat it everyday just alternate days will do. That's a good news cause I hate eating it! Eeeeek!

Called bi to tell him the good news straight away! I'm so happy that I nearly cry out of happiness!

In the noon, my cousin accompanied me to Thomson medical centre for detailed scanning. Waited for almost an hour even my cousin fall asleep while waiting with me. LOL.
Finally it's my turn! So excited to see how's mini!

The Doc was very friendly and nice. He scanned and explained very detail to me , every part of mini. The result came out mini was very healthy and normal in every part of his body, brain, mouth, heart, kidneys....etc. I can feel myself a rather peace of mind after hearing it.

The doc even burn all the pictures into a CD rom and give it to me. (: I don't know all along is it like this but maybe to me it's a first time Doc burn all the pics to me like that. So good ;p

This is the bone structure of the back brain of mini!


This is the center line of the bones of mini's brain!

Mini's spine!

Mini's little stomach!

Mini's heart valves! The left and right of the valves of the heart.

My mini's cute little face. Hee! The orbits are the eyes and the lips have upper lip and lower lip.

Mini is a boy!! :D

Mini's small little hands and fingers! So cute! (The left pic looks like he's saying hi! and giving a high five!)

Mini's feet!

Being a mum, the most happiness is to know that my baby is healthy and growing well. The best ever in life!

5th month pregnancy!

Wee~
So fast mini's 5th month already (:
I'm feeling so ecstatic as each day passes..
Now, I can already feel the kicking of mini. So fun and excited when *he kicks.The kind of happiness of every mother is not describable.

I'm so waiting forward to October, so I could start buying mini's stuff.
By Dec/Jan I'm awaiting for the little precious to be out to this world.

Tomorrow 19/8 got an appointment with my Chinese physical at Jurong on 10.30am and an appointment at Thomson family hospital on 3pm. Will scan my little mini and see how *he grows. Same time, I think tomorrow can have a final confirm of mini's gender.

20/8 got to go back to the my gynae's clinic.

Sadly, on both days, bi is not able to accompany me. He can't get leave on either days but it's OK. It's time I've to learn to be independence as well. *Hees!

And today, I gonna keep myself busy by learning knitting. Thought of knitting a sweater for mini but i guess it is not advisable as baby grows up very fast. I'm gonna knit a blanket for mini instead then. :D

How I found out mini and so on.

It's kinda shocked me.

During that period of time, I was still working in ThatCd shop.

One of the finest day, what I dint realized was that I'm actually having morning sickness for like going a month. Continue to see how it goes...



All along I thought it was just some indigestion occurs. Due to my previous work in pub, I often will have indigestion problem and gastric problems.

First, I missed my period for 1 month plus. I started burping and burping. The feeling was really awful. The more I burped, the more I wanted to puke. Whenever I rushed to the toilet,nothing comes out. Just some sort of foam-like stuff.

Sooner, things getting worse. From few days a few times, to almost everyday a few times. I couldn't bring myself to eat my lunch and dinner. Strange thing is, before these happen, I begin eating a lot in the first place. After these , I ate horrible less and sometimes depending on the mood. I can get really hungry as if I can eat up a whole cow. My boobs got bloated. At first I thought my menses was coming because I'm irregular and I can't estimate the correct date. My body became bigger and wider too.

Few weeks passes with these symptoms, I've been trying to convinced myself that it's just some kind of indigestion. I've talked to him few times about it too. We both suspect something but still, hoping it's not real.

Even after that, I gets tired very easily and often have mood swings. Usually Bf and his friends will drop by Neverland at least 1 time a week. Imagine after all these, I've been following them to Neverland but I dint drink just simply SLEEP over there.

Few drinking events, I found that I can't drink anymore. I get high and drunk easily. Every time
I reached home after drinking I would have to puke all the alcohol out before I can get to sleep.
Smoking is the next following. Whenever, I smoked til half way, I've got to stop. I can't take the smell anymore ,it's making me shortness of breath.
All of these lasted for 1 month.

One day, he was working and half way through his mom called. Asking him help to buy 4D. Usually he don't buy himself only helping others but that day, he suddenly have the urge to buy for fun. So, he took 2 numbers from 2 friends and buy a 4D number. Unexpectedly, the numbers did came out. Same day , he also have strong feeling that something's gonna happen.
While I was working for my friends' company giving out flyers on weekend at bugis. He called and asked me to buy a pregnancy kit to assure it after work.

Seriously, I was scared! Of cause , kinda embarrass to have gone to the nearest guardian and grab 1 pregnancy kit. My friend accompanied through out the whole process. I took about 10mins to actually grab that pregnancy kit in my hands and 5 mins to wonder around before going to the counter. Upon reaching the counter, I took out the pregnancy kit from inside my jacket and just throw the money and go.

Reluctant and frightened, I went to Bugis street to walk around and buy a Jacket as for gift for my friend's birthday present instead. In between, BF keep calling every 5 mins asking whether I've checked. He called so many times until I got fed-up so I lied to him that I've checked and nth happens.

Then, after spending around an hour in Bugis street, I told myself "OK, I really got to check now!" therefore I went to nearest toilet.

There, *tested*
I hold on to the kit and wait. My hands shivers.

"............................

............................................................

..........................................................................................................."

Guess what? You know what is it then.


It's a ' + ' sign!! *Gosh!*
I shouted in the toilet! It wasn't that loud as if outside could hear, of cause. =.="
I quickly called him and tell bout the result.

He was shocked. He though I lied to him.
For the next around 5-10 minutes of conversations....

ME: "Bi, I tell you something."
HIM: "What?"

ME: "Just now said I've tested , actually it's a lie."
HIM: "So.. have you tested now?"

ME: "Yes!"
HIM: "What's the result?"

ME: "It's a '+' sign..."
HIM: "Eh.. '+' sign means what ah?"

ME: "means got la!...zzzz"
HIM: "Uhhh.. Serious? Don't bluff me!"

ME: "yes! This time is real..."

These
HIM: " Uhhh.. Serious? Don't bluff me!" ME: "yes! This time is real..."

continues for a few minutes and so on...ZZZzzz

Then " let's get married then...." :D
Of cause, we struggled a lot of things.
Discuss a lot of things before we really decide what is good for us.

*In the beginning, I did have thoughts of giving up this baby because I want my future to be so-called well planned as the way I've been hoping for my life. Friends who knows me, knows I will not blindly just give birth a baby without thinking carefully.
No job, no secure =hardship. When I found out mini , is already 2 months going to 3months and I have to make the decision quick. My choice was quite determined until the last week mini becoming 3 mth in my tummy, I dropped the thoughts of abort and decide to give mini what I can ever give.
I've thought a lot.
To think carefully whether he's the right man who I can entrusted my whole life happiness on his hand. Never will I blindly play with whole life my happiness. If he's not the one I think he should be, I will not want the baby to suffer together with me. The final choice is on still on me and best part is, he respect any choice that I made.

My little mini-me!

Coming up!!!

Next topic!!!

How I found out about MINI-ME!!!!

Stay tune! :D

From how we met til we got married ♥

Do you guys believe in a thing named "FATE" ?

I guess.. Somehow I really do.
A thing call Love and Fate bring us together after 2 years.
I have my story...
It maybe long but do stay with me and I'll share it with you. :D

It goes....

Just like every year does, a common special period of the Chinese.
The Chinese New Year.
I felt bored (as like every year) after the dinner and supposing to be the start of great
excitement. GAMBLING.
I don't really like gambling that much so I went out with this friend.
He told me that we'll be joining his group of friends to a pub.

I dint talk much to them cause I still felt like a stranger to them.
After some drinks, they decided to shift to another pub at BQ area.
Before we leave, we took a group photo.

And there goes, how I met him for the first time.
That point of time, the impression he gave me was that he's quiet and decent. He's unlike some other guys who will do/ talk a lot to attract people's attention. (Attention seeker; Which I dislike most)
He gave me some kind of mystery and special feeling. A feeling I can hardly describe clearly and know what it is.

The group photo. 10.02.2008.
The day where we first lay our eyes on each other..

We went over to BQ, we started our first conversation and also playing some games.
After that night, we did not exchange numbers so we lost contact and dint see each other anymore. (Only friendster at that point of time however we did not message each other as well.)


2 years later, I finished my dip studies in MDIS and was working in Le Bar for going 1 year.
Life has always been ups and downs.
Past couple of relationships brought me real bottom point of my life.
And when I start picking up myself day by day...

I saw him .
In my work place.
I was shocked to see this familiar face again.
Our eyes met once again.
I went up to him and said " You look familiar" and he thought I was joking.
He replied" Ya! you look familiar too!" in a joking manner.
"I'm serious! I saw you some where before." I replied.
then...I remembered. It was him.
I told him I know you are my "that friend's" friend.
And that's how he recalled too. Then I went back continue working.

Met him again at the toilet after that..
That's when I said "Hey! You looks like you've gained a lot of weight uh?!"
"Yah" he replied in a very shy and short sentence.

Several times ( like 4x?) met up at my work place, one day we teamed up to play 5-10 together along with his friends. We keep winning and that's how our bonding became closer.
He asked me out on 6.6.10 as they are going clubbing with big group of friends at dragonfly.

He finally initiate to exchange numbers.
That day I met him at dragonfly after my work and we took some pics together of us for the first time.

Slowly, that's how we started dating.. for 3 months. Due to the heartache I had in previous relationship and due to my job, I didn't wanted to be in relationship. So during the first 3 months, we remains as friends. Meanwhile these 3 months, he was very patience with me, his love and concern were persistent. Instead, he's been giving in a lot to me and that makes me feel very touched. ♥

After the 3 months, I accepted his ♥.


He started out by giving me surprised gift even though it wasn't any special occasion. Just some casual day.

Brought me to Taiwan for trip. Our first trip together and I enjoyed it just as much with him. Having to experience a brand new thing together with him.

Our hotel room in Taiwan.


Brought me to the restaurant that I wanted to go. The Toilet restaurant.♥


First time experiencing taking Taiwan's MRT.


To relax in Spring bath.♥


Drawing our portrait on Taiwan's streets stall




Our first neoprints together! In Taiwan.♥

A little bit by bit, showing his love and concern to me. Telling me he misses me through sms everyday without fail. Showing me and make sure I feel it.♥

This was one day, I went out with my friends til dawn. He was feeling sick but I wasn't around to take care of him. He rest at home alone and he did not angry with me, instead, he make this soft toy wear my lingerie and prepare a towel for me to bath when I reach his home, all beside him to show how much he wanted me next to him so he took the soft toy to replace the physical me. He was snoring real loud next to it! *Hees

On my birthday, he help me organized and sponsored my chalet consecutive 2 days celebrations.
Got me my designer's cake for my day 2 celebration.

And of cause, my first branded bag for my birthday. Burberry.


My sister's birthday at Club Atlantis.

My Christmas present from him. BB Bold 9700. Which I lost it after 1 week on new year eve together with my burberry wallet, Sony T90 camera and another Nokia phone. Damn drunk. ): Super heartache! Sorry baby!

Valentine's day flower. Though it was rather normal common night with dinner and movie but the presence of him makes it unforgettable.

The promise that he make to bring me to Kitty lab. Play the kitty games with me! Thanks!! We had a lot of fun! I feel kiddy again!

Dint realize that at this point of time, I've cut the bangs. Something special is already growing inside of me. A amazing magical happens!

The promise to bring me to universal studio. The mummy ride was fun! I sat 3 times but The Jurassic Park really brighten up my day because I can see him whole drenched with big splashed of water cover him from his back. He can still happily laughing away! So cute of him!

I have my propose on Genting cable. He is afraid of height but because I wanted to sit the cable car too so he hide his fear in front of me and carry on. Then I realized he was holding the pole inside cable car almost throughout the whole go-&-back trip and his hands was sweating all over!

And so.... WE GOT MARRIED ON 08.08.10.

It doesn't matter how long we've known each other , how long we've fall in love with each other.
For all, we both chosen each other to be the right one to hold our hands together hand in hand and walk down the rest of our life til death do us apart. May what obstacles come...

Just married!